Seeking Arrangement Review – The Home Of Sugar Daddy And Baby
Seeking Arrangement is the largest dating website for sugar daddies allowing them to find and date a sugar baby. The sugar babies at the website is looking for an allowance provided by the sugar daddy to pay for their college tuition and bills while the sugar daddy is looking for a young companion or two to have fun with.
Seeking Arrangement Cost
Although seeking arrangement is free to join, there are parts of the sites that will require you to pay for a premium membership if you are a sugar daddy or sugar mom. Sugar babies (male or female) can join for free with full access to the site’s premium features. This is the reason why there is a 1 sugar daddy to 10 sugar baby ratio for seeking arrangement.
The cost to upgrade to Premium membership is… $30 for 30 days, $60 for 90 days, or $90 for 180 days.
Features of Seeking Arrangement
- Huge size of Sugar Daddies, Mommies and Babies
- Lets you email potential dates and ask to meet up.
- Lots of attractive guys and girls but you will also see a lot of not so good looking people
- Able to view profiles with information and pictures
- Guidebook to help you around the website
- Search Function – Lets perform a search based on location, age, height, body type, income, and so on.
Seeking Arrangement Review
The site is very large and currently it’s the #1 when it comes to sugar daddy dating. For sugar daddies, it doesn’t get any easier than finding a date here… that’s if you have money. The majority of the girls are only after money and if you don’t have money you shouldn’t bother with this website or actually don’t bother being a sugar daddy at all. The girls here wants to be pampered and treated like a princess. They expect gifts and everything paid for in exchange for companionship.
From what I’ve seen, Seeking Arrangement is targeting young college girls as a sugar baby since they have tuition to pay and bills to pay. As a college student, it’s hard to juggle schoolwork and working at the same time. This is why the ratio of sugar babies to sugar daddy is high.
Since the ratio on this website is at least 10 sugar babies to 1 sugar daddy, finding a sugar baby is not hard at all. It’s actually very easy. Set up a profile with a picture and you will get a lot of girls emailing you right away.
The navigation on seeking arrangement is great and it’s easy to find what you want. There is a guide to help you around if you’re still lost, but you most people will be able to figure it out themselves.
One of my favorite Seeking Arrangement tools is the search function. You can search by age, height, body type, location, income, race, and anything you can think of really. This is the perfect way to find your Sugar Daddy or Sugar Baby.
Although Seeking Arrangement is targeted towards Sugar Daddies and Sugar Babies, they do allow Sugar Mommies to sign up also. It’s not as popular as being a sugar daddy or sugar baby, but it’s still popular.
Warning For Sugar Baby: Fake Millionaires
The thing you have to pay attention to is the sugar daddies faking to be millionaires. There seems to be a lot of fake people pretending to be rich at this website, but it’s the same with every sugar daddy dating websites. Lots of guys are pretending to have a ton of money to date young girls.
If you plan on meeting a sugar daddy in person, make sure you two meet in public and in a crowded place. Also, you should make sure he has money. Just because he has a nice car doesn’t mean that he is rich as it doesn’t cost that much to rent a car. Don’t do anything you will regret on the first date.
Don’t let this scare you though, it’s just a warning. Although there are a lot of fake millionaires on this website, there are also a lot of real ones. Seeking arrangement introduced a club called the “Diamond Daddy” which are exclusively only for the top sugar daddies. If you see a diamond daddy next to his profile, then you know that he is one of the top Sugar Daddies on seeking arrangement since this user has been certify from Seeking Arrangement themselves.
Conclusion
All sugar daddies, sugar babies (both male and female), and sugar mommies can sign up with Seeking Arrangement. Overall, if you are looking for a sugar daddy, baby or mommy then Seeking Arrangement is your best bet in finding one.
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Be careful gentlemen. I am being extorted/blackmailed by a girl from this site. After much investigation, I have come to realize that this is very common. I would hazard a guess that a large percentage of married men will face the same thing. Many (if not most) of the girls on this site manipulate men very well. They will make you think nothing could go wrong and that your secretes are safe, but as soon as they don’t get what you want, you are screwed. If I had to guess, I would say that 20% or more of the girls on this site would use blackmail. So if you meet 5 girls, odds are that one will blackmail you. I have emailed SA about the problem, but they ignored me. They clearly don’t care about women who are abused by bad men or men who are swindled by bad women. If any men are or have faced the same thing, please post it to this blog and anywhere else you can. Do not be ashamed and do not ever give into the blackmail. The FBI will investigate and has in my case. They are going to arrest her soon I believe.
Oh God… It’s bad on our end as well. I have learned some hard lessons this week…
Stop cheating on your wife and then the sugar baby wouldn’t anything to blackmail you with. Be a real man and be faithful to your wife. No pity just do the right thing and good things will return to you as long as you are doing the wrong thing you are attracting what you are. Darn Karma
I have the same issue, I cannot message the person I like only favourite them, so I come across as a dumb bimbo with no mouth! Also all my public and private are approved. I don’t get it! what am I doing wrong. It’s been a day and a half since I joined.
I am having the same exact problem I have a profile appraised my pictures have been improved and it says that you should be able to communicate ones those are for you or you can upgrade… well I don’t have the money to upgrade that’s why I’m trying to get a sd… I lost my job n November than last week I wrecked my car while looking for another job so I am stuck. how in world do we communicate with the sugaddaddies… this site should not be so complicated it says there’s no I haven’t googled and it said there’s a Settings button button and you can edit your profile cuz I wanted to add it what I said and edit my pictures
As a Standard Sugar Baby, you are able to freely communicate on the website as long as you maintain an approved profile and have at least 1 approved public profile photo. If you do not meet the requirements or signed up under the wrong account, our support department would gladly assist you. They can be reached for all questions and concerns you may have at
Ohh , Look the site may have some problems , Fake Guys and desperate women .
However , its far from a Scam .I have met a delightful Asian princess ,
who is intelligent , funny and gifted , and also an absolute Glamour by the way ..She is incredible . There are a few small issues , but nothing comes one way . She actually doesn’t want Money ( I would give her if she wanted ) , she more prefers mentor ship , which is lovely .
You need to be open minded , but you also need flexibility and patience , just keep working though , and remember there is Not just ” One Type of Arrangement ” . Also , there is no such thing as a Free lunch .
Be careful with Moby in Montreal .. Bad experience .. At first was nice, as soon as we got closer he tried to fuck me without condom and slapped me in the face .. there is some assholes on this website I guess
This website is a joke! I have been on and off for almost a year and have yet to find a real sugar daddy. There’s been guys on here for years (profile shows when account was created). That must mean they have no luck or just have random hookups. The two guys I considered taking serious I realized we’re logging in still all the time. These guys don’t want a sugar relationship they want random hookups. A true rich man with good looks won’t be on this site, they can meet hot woman in real life! Won’t be returning to this site. They need to take their website more serious
SA sucks. Mostly “shills” on the site, and a lot of fat hookers.
I had one meeting with a fake millionair (SD), when I came home after meeting him I did some reseach about him and scanned his picture. His photo was matched to a prostitution site. I think he used this site to meet girls to pimp them out. He was Chinese living in Paris (I should have known better. Everything he said during the meeting was a lie. he also claimed to be the owner of a big club in Paris (that wasnt true)because it was very easy to find out who the real owner was. It was my first and only meeting with someone from that site, and what a waste of time
So girls you better be careful, and do your research before meeting.
Hi Lou, I fear I might’ve met exactly the same guy that you’re referring to! I can’t see the date of your post, ,like, when did you meet him (I did in summer 2014) and how did he look, how old was he? What’s his name (and the name he uses on the SA site)? Cheers! -W
Hi Whitney, What a coincidence… I met him too in the summer 2014 (in June) He came to London. He uses the name Philip on SA but thats not his real name, I don’t know what his real name is. According to his profile he’s 40 but he looks much older. Now he changed that on SA to 39. He was Chinese with a very wide nose and grey hair but on SA he uses a dated picture where he has black hair, on his profile he said he has black hair. He is very very dubious and shady. I thought SA does background check for all the male users, thats why I didnt scan his picture before meeting him.
Let me know if this is the same guy
Hi Lou! Yes, it is the same guy.
But I can calm you a little – I know who he is (I have good connections in Paris, – he tried to pull off that one nightclub thing with me, too. :D) But otherwise he was actually quite ok and polite, and he gave me his real name also. He is not all that shady, though I understand how he could come across as shady. We met a couple times and I’ve been to his home also. He is a big talker, but nothing more.
I did also scan the picture long before meeting him, and where it comes up is in a hungarian forum for everything from sex-ads to spare parts for cars. Just a big online forum. He is searching for encounters/ a live-in arrangement there – he works in Hungary part-time. He is active in the Paris nightlife , but on a much smaller scale. lol. Doing ok, but not as well as he claims lol. He is a fake, yes! As far as prostitution in Paris is concerned, I wldn’t know though, since it is the Chinese doing that in Paris. But in my case he didn’t try anything other than to hook up with me; we had just very normal dates, dinner drinks and hooked up.
However it was as if we had met in a bar rather than on SA, he didn’t act according to the SA ‘rules’ at all. The thing ended after that.
– W
and he’s 4 years older than he claims. nothing tragic
I am on this site, everything I do is absolutely free, I read emails and winks with no issues at all. Just the guys on the site will literally email you saying they are interested and as soon as you email back showing interest they disappear
It’s very bizarre when my profile states email if interested. I don’t know. So I haven’t had any luck on the site.
I have been on and off for a while, was never keen to meet any girl I conversed with until now! I have met a girl who is stunningly beautiful, intelligent and the easiest person to spend time with I have ever met. I am ecstatically happy and can only advise not to expect instant results but rather keep going and eventually you will strike gold as I have.
This site is not a scam. But then again there are so many issues on various levels on what this is. I’ve been a member for few months now and there’s a very thin line on escorting Vs this. The problem is many young people dont’ really understand about sugar daddy arrangement. I myself being a entrepreneur and mentor , mentored some interns and other people and helped them financially in my business. Being a sugar daddy means, it’s a one to one commitment. He gives your reasonable allowance, gifts, takes care of you. Not screwing a bunch of girls and the same thing applies to a sugar baby. A true sugar baby is your only mistress. She’s not sleeping around with 5 or 10 other guys and also collects money from you. In the amount of time I’ve been here, it’s pretty difficult to find anyone to commit to you in a real sugar daddy basis. Many of these women tell you that they prefer one guy. But once they get the taste of $$$$, they realize, and set calendar for a bunch of SDs. The realize if they can make 2-3K per guy by seeing him 4-5 times a month. They they juggle the schedules, and make things work with multiple people, cancel schedules based on who gives them more money per lay. And then lose good SDs in the middle of this whole drama. By far although I see this as a outlet, it’s very rare and few people find that one girl or guy who are one to one and end up as real SB and SD. Everything else is simply escorting/prostitution justified in a different way. The site helps everything , as legally cops cannot prove it’s prostitution, because you can always claim you’ve known each other and plus you’re always meeting in nice hotels or at the SDs home. Other than that there’s not even a fine line for most people’s encounters.
Plus most women I’ve seen (many good looking and even very good looking) have at least minor infections such as yeast, minor bacterial, and some could possibly have herpes which is sometimes hard to know, which just makes you think twice that how safe this is.
Things only gets worse, because as long as it’s not one to one, it’s a very risky situation.
I completely agree with Tonyroy’s experience. It is exactly what I found. The issue of dishonest women juggling multiple men is not discussed enough. I have yet to meet an honest one. The fact that some SB websites encourage this behavior does not help.
SDs get STDs from these women? Big surprise there. All of these women will have STDs. You can repackage it any way you want, these women are prostitutes masquerading as nice girls. High class call girls would be a much safer bet for men with money to blow.
That’s NOT true , both males & females can get & do get stds that’s why U SHOULD BE cautious & have them get checked & bring their Proof they are clean prior to meet ( if u ask me ) js best wishes to all
Thanks for this feedback, I just joined the site in Houston hoping to met a gentleman to help further my career but I haven’t had very good luck. This post confirms this isn’t something I need to be on. Have a wonderful day!
Most of these comments can’t be from people who have used the site. I’ve been an SD on the site for the last 2 weeks. Yes, I had to pay to do anything like send messages (but the women don’t have to pay). I can’t imagine spending $60/month to collect photos. Yes, the main profile picture of most women is the best photo they have had taken in the past five years so they never look that good. But, there is a huge variety of women from genuine girls looking for a relationship (who last about a month), pay-for-play college girls, straight up escorts, and scam artists. If you post a picture, get the background check, and are not a creep, this site is great. Also, I live in a big city so there is a lot to choose from within 25 miles.
Scott well how do I get started?
I’ve been on the site for 2 years. I recommend it highly. I’ve dated more beautiful women in these last two years than I ever have in my life. It’s a WHOLE lot better than going to a strip club to meet a hot girl. The girls just want to be treated like princesses not sluts. A sugar daddy is going to do that, and he’s not going to judge her, or talk trash about her. Regular dating often will lead to a girl being treated like a slut, and the guy judging her and talking trash about her. That’s a big part of why it works. It’s way more than just allowances and gifts. Most (80%) of the girls I’ve dated are all still friends of mine, and we stay in touch using other social media and texting. It is NOT a scam.
not a scam at all…. I have met 12 women from the site on various types of dates (intimate and not) and retain 2 close friends with benefits even now…(this is the UK site). There are many who don’t get it or are just experimenting but with that ratio of 10-1 then no wonder it works for me. I don’t have a public pic btw and still get hit on twice a day …
as to allowances, avoid those who are from London or above 40 really. Northern and Midlands 20’s girls will date for much less….
Make sure you meet in public always and keep safe!
Hey man how much a month do the expect in midlands area?
I have to completely disagree with your opinion of seeking arrangement . After spending almost 2 years on the site being a background verified member , all I found was woman using fake modeling pics . Scam artists trying to get you to western union them money and just numerous fake profiles . Don’t waste your time and money
um i’d love to be your damn SB.
I’ve been on Seeking Arrangement For 3 months and I’ve had plenty of dates as well as gifts I love it and I haven’t paid 1 penny to get a premium access or anything.
My comment refers to the UK site. Why I label it a scum:
1) It says in FAQ that standard members can view messages – in fact you can’t even view who sent the message;
2) All messages are MANUALLY checked, censored and modified – indicates low traffic through the site;
3) Some faces were familiar from other sites – I found them, contacted, explained the reason, asked their opinion on SA -not a single response;
4) Pictures sent from someone posing at the site had no digital signature – means they either came from the Web or were edited.
Verdict: don’t pay any fees and don’t waste time.
I also think it’s a spam and that someone’s try’s to get cheat us. First of all the “Sugar Babys” cannot even see the emails without paying! Second , I had a look at the number of registered girls and they are only 30. There are lots of reach guys who seem to be subscribed, but no new entries, always the same ones…. If you go to similar sites you see there thousands of women and they don’t have to pay to be able to see the received messages or to send a wink ( which I find ridiculous )
I disagree: I’m a SB on this site and I don’t have to pay nor upgrade for sending winks and reading and sending messages..
So maybe you only need to get your profile approved with at least 1 public picture.
I am a Sb too. I didnt pay one penny for the site and I am able to send and read emails and winks.. You just need to have your profile approved with one picture at least.
Full of men that just want to collect photos. Or exchange emails which must give them some type of ego boost and affirmation, lol. Lots of men are looking for compliments on their looks, just like women. Cult of shallowness. Big scam.
This is actually not a good place to look for a sugar daddy. I still have not found one yet and I joined about five months ago. Got a few messages, but the dating site wants you to pay to upgrade your membership to a premium. So you will have access seeing who favorites you or pay to get verified for more messages. I think you guys are just a scam.
They ask you to pay thirty bucks for the chance to meet a Sugar Daddy who quite possibly will pamper you for years to come – and you call it a scam?